This is usually the result of a person experiencing rejection, abandonment or mistreatment because of an unfortunate or abusive situation. Now, when someone tries to get close to you, self-sabotage, punishing or pushing others away could be your reaction.
Along with your internal alarms, you probably shut down and keep everyone at arm’s length. Maybe, you do this behavior because you don’t want to get hurt again like you have been in the past. Call in today to start your healing.